| There are some mental tools that can help out greatly | | | | their own experiences? If you take care of every little |
| when using the Law of Attraction to help overcome | | | | thing for someone else how are they going to learn |
| some of the repetitive mental patterns keeping you | | | | about life? There is nothing wrong with helping others |
| from manifesting your desires. Here are five to help | | | | as long as you have given yourself time as well. Here |
| you along. | | | | is a perfect analogy: When you board an airplane the |
| 1. GAME OVER. Sometimes we can get caught up | | | | flight attendant reminds you that in the event of an |
| into the past mental looping cycle. You know, when | | | | emergency, to please put your oxygen mask on |
| you think of a past moment and you keep repeating it | | | | before you affix your child's oxygen mask. You know |
| over and over again in your mind and before you | | | | why? Because if you attempt to take care of your |
| know it you have been focusing on the past. This is | | | | child first and pass out from lack of oxygen for |
| great if it is a happy moment in your life but if it is a | | | | yourself, you won't be around to help him anymore. But |
| traumatic or negative moment, you are simply creating | | | | if you take care of your own oxygen mask first, you |
| the situation over and over again and that will attract | | | | will be there for your child. Make yourself the priority |
| right back to you in some form. So here are two | | | | and then help others. You'll be happier and so will the |
| words to remember when you are mulling over that | | | | people you are helping. |
| ten year old fight you had with Mom: GAME OVER. | | | | 4. KNOW WHAT THE FOCUS IS. When you desire |
| The moment you realize you are reliving something | | | | something, instead of visualizing and focusing on the |
| that doesn't serve any purpose now, say to yourself: | | | | actual desire like money, career, health, or a loving |
| GAME OVER. No one is playing that past game | | | | relationship, get down to the nitty gritty and determine |
| anymore and neither should you. When thinking of your | | | | what it is that you really want from the material desire. |
| past, find out what you learned and then say it to | | | | Let's take money for example. Instead of visualizing on |
| yourself, "GAME OVER." The past game is over. By | | | | $100,000 arriving at your door, focus on what it is that |
| acknowledging these trigger words the game no | | | | you ultimately want from the money. What will the |
| longer has to be played, and if someone else wants to | | | | money bring you in emotional terms? Do you want |
| bring the past up to you, you are free to no longer be | | | | money so that you will feel safe, secure, confident, and |
| a part of the game. | | | | relieved of stress? Then focus on those feelings and |
| 2. NO MISTAKES OR FAILURES. First of all there are | | | | include them in your visualization and focus. Sometimes |
| no mistakes or failures. These are words that we too | | | | the logical mind can't believe that you could make |
| often use in society, yet society made them up. These | | | | money quickly or a sum of $100,000.00 and then the |
| negative descriptions likely came from a person who | | | | lack and disbelief plays the lead role part in the money |
| first felt insecure about himself, and sought another's | | | | not coming. Cut straight to the chase by visualizing the |
| choice and declared it was wrong and therefore is a | | | | emotions and the joy of what money will bring you. By |
| "failure." "Mistakes" or "failures" are just words. They | | | | doing this, you are bypassing and confusing the logical |
| are the description of an event, not a person. You | | | | mind's ability to recognize lack and instead you feel |
| didn't desire whatever the situation was to be a | | | | exactly what you want from the money. It is just as |
| mistake or a failure, you were just making a choice | | | | effective, and the logical mind doesn't seem to have a |
| and putting focus on a path that at the time seemed | | | | problem with feeling safe, secure, confident, and |
| right. Look back on what you call your mistake or | | | | relieved from stress when you take money out of the |
| failure without any emotion and see the true lesson | | | | equation. The Universe will then comply with your |
| that you may have learned from it. That lesson is the | | | | feelings and what will it bring you all those emotions? |
| gold nugget in your past choice because the lesson is | | | | Money. |
| what you got out of it. No more energy required. | | | | 5. LIVE IN JOY. This is one that some people forget as |
| 3. TAKE CARE OF YOU. Many people take care of | | | | they are focusing on their desires and doing their best |
| everyone else's needs before their own. This may | | | | to live in the joy. When focusing and visualizing on your |
| appear as if they are caring people but when they put | | | | desires don't forget to see it with ease. When you see |
| others before their own needs, they will attract just | | | | it with ease it will come a lot easier and smoother for |
| that. Everyone else will need and want their attention | | | | you. |
| first. This can be tiring and begin a cycle that won't | | | | So there you have a few mental tools to further you |
| stop. Does everyone know that you will drop | | | | along when applying the Law of Attraction. Happy |
| everything for them? Have you ever stopped to think | | | | creating! |
| by doing this you are not allowing them to learn from | | | | |