| There are some mental tools that can help out | | | | experiences? If you take care of every |
| greatly when using the Law of Attraction to | | | | little thing for someone else how are they |
| help overcome some of the repetitive mental | | | | going to learn about life? There is nothing |
| patterns keeping you from manifesting your | | | | wrong with helping others as long as you have |
| desires. Here are five to help you along. | | | | given yourself time as well. Here is a |
| | | | perfect analogy: When you board an airplane |
| 1. GAME OVER. Sometimes we can get caught up | | | | the flight attendant reminds you that in the |
| into the past mental looping cycle. You | | | | event of an emergency, to please put your |
| know, when you think of a past moment and you | | | | oxygen mask on before you affix your child's |
| keep repeating it over and over again in your | | | | oxygen mask. You know why? Because if you |
| mind and before you know it you have been | | | | attempt to take care of your child first and |
| focusing on the past. This is great if it is | | | | pass out from lack of oxygen for yourself, |
| a happy moment in your life but if it is a | | | | you won't be around to help him anymore. But |
| traumatic or negative moment, you are simply | | | | if you take care of your own oxygen mask |
| creating the situation over and over again | | | | first, you will be there for your child. |
| and that will attract right back to you in | | | | Make yourself the priority and then help |
| some form. So here are two words to remember | | | | others. You'll be happier and so will the |
| when you are mulling over that ten year old | | | | people you are helping. |
| fight you had with Mom: GAME OVER. The | | | | |
| moment you realize you are reliving something | | | | 4. KNOW WHAT THE FOCUS IS. When you desire |
| that doesn't serve any purpose now, say to | | | | something, instead of visualizing and |
| yourself: GAME OVER. No one is playing that | | | | focusing on the actual desire like money, |
| past game anymore and neither should you. | | | | career, health, or a loving relationship, get |
| When thinking of your past, find out what you | | | | down to the nitty gritty and determine what |
| learned and then say it to yourself, "GAME | | | | it is that you really want from the material |
| OVER." The past game is over. By | | | | desire. Let's take money for example. |
| acknowledging these trigger words the game no | | | | Instead of visualizing on $100,000 arriving |
| longer has to be played, and if someone else | | | | at your door, focus on what it is that you |
| wants to bring the past up to you, you are | | | | ultimately want from the money. What will |
| free to no longer be a part of the game. | | | | the money bring you in emotional terms? Do |
| | | | you want money so that you will feel safe, |
| 2. NO MISTAKES OR FAILURES. First of all | | | | secure, confident, and relieved of stress? |
| there are no mistakes or failures. These are | | | | Then focus on those feelings and include them |
| words that we too often use in society, yet | | | | in your visualization and focus. Sometimes |
| society made them up. These negative | | | | the logical mind can't believe that you could |
| descriptions likely came from a person who | | | | make money quickly or a sum of $100,000.00 |
| first felt insecure about himself, and sought | | | | and then the lack and disbelief plays the |
| another's choice and declared it was wrong | | | | lead role part in the money not coming. Cut |
| and therefore is a "failure." "Mistakes" or | | | | straight to the chase by visualizing the |
| "failures" are just words. They are the | | | | emotions and the joy of what money will bring |
| description of an event, not a person. You | | | | you. By doing this, you are bypassing and |
| didn't desire whatever the situation was to | | | | confusing the logical mind's ability to |
| be a mistake or a failure, you were just | | | | recognize lack and instead you feel exactly |
| making a choice and putting focus on a path | | | | what you want from the money. It is just as |
| that at the time seemed right. Look back on | | | | effective, and the logical mind doesn't seem |
| what you call your mistake or failure without | | | | to have a problem with feeling safe, secure, |
| any emotion and see the true lesson that you | | | | confident, and relieved from stress when you |
| may have learned from it. That lesson is the | | | | take money out of the equation. The Universe |
| gold nugget in your past choice because the | | | | will then comply with your feelings and what |
| lesson is what you got out of it. No more | | | | will it bring you all those emotions? Money. |
| energy required. | | | | |
| | | | 5. LIVE IN JOY. This is one that some people |
| 3. TAKE CARE OF YOU. Many people take care | | | | forget as they are focusing on their desires |
| of everyone else's needs before their own. | | | | and doing their best to live in the joy. |
| This may appear as if they are caring people | | | | When focusing and visualizing on your desires |
| but when they put others before their own | | | | don't forget to see it with ease. When you |
| needs, they will attract just that. Everyone | | | | see it with ease it will come a lot easier |
| else will need and want their attention | | | | and smoother for you. |
| first. This can be tiring and begin a cycle | | | | |
| that won't stop. Does everyone know that you | | | | So there you have a few mental tools to |
| will drop everything for them? Have you ever | | | | further you along when applying the Law of |
| stopped to think by doing this you are not | | | | Attraction. Happy creating! |
| allowing them to learn from their own | | | | |